Dear Darestars Diva,

I want to surprise my boyfriend by doing something new in the bedroom. I thought about stripping for him, but I’m really shy. Worse, I wouldn’t know what to do! The Darestars girls are all so brave!

All Dressed Up With Nowhere To Go

Dear Dressed Up

Good for you! I applaud your desire to be adventurous and bold. Read the rest of this entry »

A lot of people think that stripping and similar forms of sensual exhibitionism objectify women. But what if that act of erotic expression is the woman’s choice?

To objectify something is to depersonalize it. Stripping, in general, probably does depersonalize women. It is, most often, not something an audience watches, because they care about who the performer is. However, just because a woman is being objectified by her audience, or by her viewers, does not mean that stripping is a bad thing. Objectification is not a moral judgment. Read the rest of this entry »